Loss and cake

Hey y'all!!!

So uhhmmmm... I have good news and bad news. Yesterday I lost someone  who played a very important role in my life. I wont lie I kinda felt it coming but yeah... I was hurt, torn, crashed but you know...LIFE!!

Those who know me well would figure out who from the next couple of things I'm guna write. (or even my previous post....duhhhh)

The good news is... this person is still guna be in my life, just playing a different role. It's a role i love... and I'm OK with it but I just wish they could play both roles. Hey, we don't all get what we want, huh?

I balled my eyes out like I've never before yesterday... got this piercing headache but I slept it off. 

I have one, actually two people to thank... an A and an I.... ( why am I onto this hiding identities thing though??? loool)

I might take a while to let go... live without this person playing that role in my life but, I will be fine. I will be good. Everything has a beginning and an end ( I cant believe I just used that, considering the fact that I absolutely hate cliches) :/

Oh well... will tell u more later. Will let y'all know how this new chapter in my life gets sorted out. i know God has big plans for me :))

OMD... almost forgot. I have the word cake in my title because I baked a marble cake today *raise you hands to the roof*

Love y'all :*

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Hey y'all

Sarah here.... Although most people call me Kukie!!
I am creating this blog as a way of expressing myself and all the things I like and appreciate, ranging from nature, fashion, travel, architecture and even COOKING!! 🙌

I'll try to post something as often as possible... Please keep up. Comment and all...

Love y'all.

Love.....maybe

I don't want to assume that all of you know me well, but those who do know that I'm in love.

Someone is probably rolling their eyes right now... oh yes, i see you :P, but i cant help it. This boy crept into my life at a time when a needed a friend the most, he became one of my closest friends and he took interest in me in a way that no other has.

We all know how hard it is to have a friend in a partner. I very well know a number of people in relationships who are not even friends with their partners ( and even I have been in such situations before). And that is why i treasure this guy. No matter what happens, we always put our friendship first. 

Couples go through hard times.....boyyyyyyyyy, I don't even want to go there with this, it's too obvious that no one is perfect. However, my point is even if we have a disagreement, we will still speak in a space of a few seconds (as friends) and eventually these two friends will realize that these two people need to grow up and fix things.

I could go on all day about my bae but I'll spare you the pain of reading too much :P

Just a tip:

For those in relationships... Make sure you are friends or best friends before anything else. Otherwise, it's going to be really hard to hold on when you don't really know this person you are in a relationship with.

Love y'all

Toddles my boos :**